Aaron Marino of alpha m. has two viewer questions with the same theme regarding individual men’s style. The conclusion for both questions: you have to be comfortable with what you’re doing and not listen to ‘experts’.

An ‘expert’ said that only men with dark hair and complexions can wear black. Can a blonde man wear black?

Aaron expresses that the experts are stuck in a box. The reality with style and fashion, there is no ‘right’ and ‘wrong’. It’s totally subjective. Color comes down to you and your preference. If there is color that you absolutely love and looks great on you, wear it! Black and white are the universal shades that anyone can wear and look great in.

How much leeway is there for individual style? For example, does Tommy Lee (Motley Crue) have a good look as I am compared to him.

Aaron responds that Tommy Lee is definitely alpha: he’s confident, he knows who he is, and he’s unapologetic for the person he’s presenting to society. He also  has a unique style that he owns, which is what Aaron is trying to teach alpha men. Take what Aaron says and put a spin on it. Style and personal taste come down to being comfortable and confident.  Find a style that expresses your own unique personality.