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A viewer is got engaged recently to the woman of his dreams. In the past, she slept with 30 men; however, he’s only had 3 past partners. He loves her but can’t stop thinking about her past indiscretions.
In this video men’s style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro talks about the alarming amount of casual sex people have these days. A double standard exists between men and women regarding sexual partners, where a man is considered a ‘stud’ but a woman is a ‘slut’. Alpha also shares a quote he heard: ‘A lot’ is one more person than what you slept with.
In regard to this woman, she said ‘yes’ to marry the viewer and is committing herself to him. He shouldn’t beat her up and question her constantly. It will kill the relationship. Even if he talks to her, the past can’t be taken back. It’s baggage, and the viewer has baggage as well. If he can live with her past, he needs to simply move forward.
Everyone has a sexual past. When you’re secure with yourself and your relationship, it’s not a competition. The girl loves the viewer and wants to be with him. She never did anything to him, and she can’t change the past. If he can’t forget about it, he needs to break up with her. If he can move forward, congratulations and good luck!