My wife said she loved me the other day, and I asked why — I needed reasons. Why did she fall in love with me in the first place? To refresh your memory, when we met, I was making $24,000 a year, and not long after that, I was bankrupt and driving a beer cart. She fell in love with me anyway, and I was curious why. She gave me 10 reasons, which I realize now are universal. It’s not just that I’m ‘special.’ If you possess these 10 traits, it’s literally impossible for somebody not to fall madly in love with you.
Traits that are impossible not to love
- Being who you are without apologies – don’t try to be somebody you’re not.
- Being a kind person – this means that you are a decent human being with a strong moral compass. You’re kind to others, which is one of the most attractive things you can do. Start volunteering if you want to give your confidence a kick in the ass. Helping somebody else is intoxicating and will boost your esteem, raising your attraction level and love-ability.
- Exuding confidence – being confident is incredibly alluring and will draw people to you. Feel great about yourself and know the value you bring to this world. It doesn’t mean that you have to be confident in every situation, but inside, you know who you are as a person and the value you bring to the world.
- Making her feel special – if you can make somebody feel good about themselves, it’s game over, and you win. In today’s world, so many dudes are always scouting for that next spicy ass that the person they’re with feels insecure. Don’t be a flirt or a scumbag.
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- Making her laugh – if you can make her laugh, it’s game over. However, this doesn’t mean you have to be the class clown or never be serious. Just have a good sense of humor.
- Not taking yourself too seriously – don’t be an arrogant dick. Being arrogant is one of the least attractive traits. These dudes are too busy trying to prove to other people that they’re valuable that they don’t allow anyone to get close to them. It’s incredibly off-putting.
- Being a hard worker— my wife said that even when I was broke and driving a beer cart, she knew I would eventually figure out something. She never gave up on me because she knew I was harder on myself than anybody else.
- Not being a douche – don’t be overly emotional or sensitive or an emotional wreck. Yes, be in touch with your emotions and be willing to share, but don’t put up a wall.
- Not acting desperate – I had my own life going on with my own friends, which was sexy and attractive. Being super clingy and aggressive is weird. Have a balance between having your friends and spending time with her.