This video could get a little bit messy — Alpha got an email from a guy who cheated on the ‘love of his life‘ and lost her. In this video men’s style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro is talking about cheating as a response.

Why does someone cheat? Alpha cheated when he was younger although he never intended on cheating. He thought he cared about these girls and rationalized that it was just ‘hooking up’. He had insecurity issues going on, and cheating may have been a bi-product of that. It was an ego thing, and he was in the wrong situations. Unfortunately, he had to deal with the consequences when he got busted. The fear of getting caught is pretty shitty.

One reason for cheating is putting yourself out there and in that position. Don’t do it! If you do, you risk losing her. Don’t go to bars & clubs and going drinking. Another reason for cheating is the excitement of the newness. All of those endorphins are flowing when it’s new. But when it fades, it’s a recipe for disaster unless you have a good relationship & you’re willing to work on it. Falling in love feels amazing. Reality is that a relationship is challenging, and you have to be committed to nurturing it or else it dies.

Before you cheat, end the relationship! Even if you are sure you won’t get caught, end it! And if you cheat, make sure you are careful! No amazing vagina is worth a bad STD or dying for.