7 Psychological Tricks to Get a Girl to Respect You! {Without Being a Jerk}

November 27, 2019
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The cold and hard relationship reality is that if a woman doesn’t respect you, you’ll be friend-zoned. In this video men’s style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM  https://iamalpham.com/ AaronMarino https://aaronmarino.com/ Pete & Pedro https://peteandpedro.com/ Tiege Hanley https://www.tiege.com/and ENEMY https://enemy.com/ says the other reality is that if she does respect you, she’ll be more attracted to you. But sometimes men are not smart trying to gain respect, and they come off looking like a dick.

Earn Respect and Keep It

  1. Act like a man — a lot of men try to mold themselves into something that they think a woman wants which is a softer version of themselves.
  2. Stand up for yourself — don’t kiss her ass or let her walk all over you. Learn to say ‘no’ and learn to be nice without being a people pleasing push-over.
  3. Be up front and honest with her — don’t play ridiculous games. Be up front and tell her what’s up. If you want her, go out and figuratively grab it.
  4. Build mental toughness — nothing will hit you harder than life itself because life will throw you bunch of punches. You have to pick yourself up and fight again.
  5. Be self-sufficient — don’t rely on her emotionally or financially. She won’t respect for you if you’re too needy.
  6. Respect her both when she’s around and when she’s not around — don’t flirt and act like  you’re single as you’ll look like a huge dick. Plus she’ll lose respect for you when she hears what you’ve been doing.
  7. Respect yourself — don’t do self-destructive things. You need self-respect!

Build Mental Toughness

When Alpha thinks of mental toughness, he thinks of David Goggins former Navy SEAL. His story is so incredibly inspirational, which Alpha first heard about him on the Joe Rogan podcast. He’s all about  conquering your mind and doing what you don’t think is possible. Alpha also recently finished listening to his book “Can’t Hurt Me: Master Your Mind and Defy the Odds” which has 72,961 ratings (one of which is Alpha’s). If you’re ready to be inspired and start the process of building mental toughness so that you’re prepared when life comes swinging, hit the link and sign-up for Audible and start reading it today.Expand your mind and build mental toughness.

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