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Alpha gets a ton of emails ranging from what to wear to the prom to brozillian waxes. However, he got an email the other day that made him sad. In this video men’s style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro discusses whether a gay man can be an alpha male.

This email made him sad. He thinks that sexuality doesn’t determine whether you’re an alpha or not. If you are a decent person that tries his hardest, treats people with dignity and respect, and leaves this world a better place, you are an alpha.

The alpha male has evolved, and it boils down to confidence, treating people well, and knowing the value you bring to the world. The alpha male lifts people up and is responsible. The alpha male is respectable and helps people when they need it. If your character is strong, you are an alpha male.

Society and the media puts the alpha male in a box. Don’t believe the hype! Sexuality and religious ideology have no bearing on who you are as a person and what you bring to society and the world.

Alpha gets called ‘gay’ all the time, and it’s so insignificant! He doesn’t care and doesn’t give it attention. His sexuality means absolutely nothing. We all can be alpha males! But it all boils down to integrity and character!

Alpha is worried about society and culture. He feels we are off-track and missing the big picture. This question stirred a lot of passion in Alpha because he realizes there are people out there that feel as they can’t be something because of something so insignificant as sexuality. Remember, you’re awesome!